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20Teens How Many Of You Can Actually Talk To Your Parents About Sex?
Filed in: Teen Advice by BakoBiscuit on 11-20-09If not then who do you talk to about it or who have you before?
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ok, i haven’t been a teen for a ‘couple’ of years, but i never had a problem talking with dad about sex. He raised me himself, and went to the trouble of learning all the ‘girl stuff’ so that he could be prepared to have THE TALK with me. The only weird thing about it is i still find it difficult to use the proper names for the different acts of pleasure and the body part names, even in here. It wasn’t till years after the talk and preparing for the things i was going to need when i became a woman that dad admitted to me that he had practiced not blushing and keeping a very straight face long before i asked questions about sex. He told me that the time i asked what masturbation was his stomach tried to make friends with his ankles, but he took a breath, and proceeded to explain it to me just as if we were discussing what lures we should use when we went fishing.
No, it’s embarrassing for me to talk about that with my parents. I’ve talked about that with my friends, but with my parents I just can’t.
I know that it’s an important topic for discussing, because these days , kids on my age, are obsessed with sex.
But my parents trust me, they strongly believe in me, and they are proud of me. I know the consequences of having sex, and what it can leads to. I consider myself as a reasonable teenager, and because of that, I’m not planning of having sex anytime soon.
I never could talk to my mom about sex. It was her uncomfortable for her, So I talked to my big brother and big sister about it and I waited for my first time to be with someone I truly loved and cared for. We were together for a year and a half before we even did anything. It was great sharing that moment with him and we are still together to this day 4years down the line. By the way, I was 20 when I first had sex. It is always better to wait!
Here’s what you do…
Say “Mom, Dad. I’m pregnant!”
When they look at you in total shock, say “Just kidding, but I think it’s time for that talk, don’t you think???”
Parents are as afraid to “talk” about sex to our children, but I’d rather talk to them then they having no clue. Dont be afreaid, if your parents are not understanding- talk to your school’s couselor.
If that don’t help, email me directly- I will explain the best I can.
Good Luck
I have talked a little bit with my mom about things sex related, such as birth control, but I wouldn’t talk to her about sex itself. I talk to my sister about anything personal, and I talk to my friends. And unfortunately to say I have come on Y!A for some things I wouldn’t want to say face to face with someone.
Well basically my sex talk with my mom went like this after the 1st month of dating my boyfriend my mom was like im putting you on birth control whether you like it or not im not finna be a grandma and i was like alright….lol and me and boyfriend talk about sex alot because we do it lol but like im realllllllly close to one of my cousins and we talk about it and a handful of my friends.
i cant, at all.
i found out everything aside from the basic idea from friends, the internet, and y! answers when i was younger, haha. i’m 15 now and i could NEVER admit to my parents ive had it, and i have no intentions of filling them…
i dont have any adults i feel comfortable telling or talking to about sex and i probably wont in the near future
my close friends- i nerli lost ma virginity with a guy at 13 but praise the lord they talked me out of it cos he was 16 and i thought i loved him but i didn’t and he was such scum and now i’m 16 and am still a virgin =] so yh my close friends i would chat about it *cringe* i couldn’t imagine talking to my dad bout sex etc i could talk 2 my mum about it tho even tho i wouldn’t unless nesicary.
i can’t talk to my parents about anything. every time i try to say something to them they look at me like i’m immature and make a comment about how i always do and say stupid things.
when i feel the need to talk about sex stuff then i either go to my friends or my best friends mom (she’s so nice and young and easy to talk to)
I am a parent to a teen and became a parent as a teen, so I feel I can talk to my son about sex. I ask him all the questions and then answer them. I make up wild ones if he does not help and he will find one. I was there and know I had no one to talk to. I read a lot though. I learned through books. Now I think I know a lot about sex and can answer whatever he throws at me.
Who do you talk to?
Well, me and my friends talk about it. I never talk to be mom about sex. I think it would be to wierd. If I don’t talk to my friends I watch tv shows like sex with mom and dad or something.
It would be really weird for me to talk to my dad about sex. My aunt has talked about it with my before….but that was in the 4th grade, so I don’t remember anything really. I don’t have a mom to talk to about it.
i can talk to my mom. i just have to start out with, kay mom this is a serious question…then i talk. i also talk to my very bestfriend leeann. we talk about anything. we talk as far as “down there”.
i dont talk to my mom about, id rather avoid that awkward conversation all together. and i really doubt she wants to know about my sex life, cause i REALLY dont want to know about hers
Well I’ve talked to my mom about it as in “I want to be on the pill”. But I don’t get into details with her. I’m 19 though, so it’s not like she can tell me I can’t do it.
i can talk about it with any of my family members really mostly on moms side have never tried on dad’s side my fam. is really open about sex or any problem really
i cant talk to my parents about nothin!!
in the past years i had rly rly cool teachers who would talk with us about tht!!
like if we had any question at all they would answer it. they were so cool!
lol
Noo.i dont really talk about sex with my mom because it just seems to akward..idk it just doesnt seem right..but me and my best friend can talk about all of that stuff.
i try and avoid that subject but i talk about it with some of my friends who aren’t bothered by talking about sex
lol i cant i mean embarrasing its probably the best thing to do but strangely id rather talk to people on here that i dont know
i dont talk about it with anyone.
no one